Fiancé made it up
I guess I just need to vent? I don’t get this at all.. i started a new job over a month ago, working at home full time. He begged me to work full time, his family begged me to work full time “to pull my weight”. They all begged me to put my baby in daycare.. so he’s in daycare at almost $1,000 a month.
I told him the other day my job informed us(even though I will have a set schedule) we have to get the A-OK to leave for all of our breaks, our lunches and to actually leave for the day. Which… to me is absolutely crazy and may cause conflict with picking our baby up from daycare. This weekend up to tonight, I’ve had our sick baby at home. He’s had a fever all weekend long, up every 4 hours bawling his eyes out so neither of us have had much sleep... we had to go to the dr for him to get a shot & different meds.. plus I’ve worked all day while taking care of him, the dogs and do housework. I’m doing it all by myself I might add because he’s gone 4-5 weeks for work every month or so. So it’s just me.. no backups and 0 help from anyone.
Fast-forward to today and he finally calls me.. And he tells me that he heard from a little “birdie” that I got in trouble at work and that’s why I’ll have to get the A-OK for my entire shift. WHAT?! None of which is true.
I’m like.. that’s a lie? I’ve never gotten in trouble it’s their policy once I’m done and on the floor.
We talked again about an hour ago and I brought up who told him that lie and he tells me that he made it up. Who tf makes that up? I have enough stuff on my plate.. I’m a grown ass woman taking care of a baby by myself while he travels for work.. plus I’m working full time and he comes at me with that? For what?
***I know.. it’s freaking ridiculous that they plan my breaks, know my entire schedule but I still have to be told it’s okay to leave.. the whole shi-bang. Nanny isn’t an option.. I’ve tried that. I bring home maybe $1,000k extra now after paying daycare 🙃 That was a train wreck and almost the same amount of money. He absolutely loves the thought of money. He took on an extra job which turned into being gone for 2 more weeks.. and he’s going to be missing his sons first birthday.***
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.