So i started talking to someone a month ago. We’ve made plans and then he’s blown them off 4 times in the past maybe 2/3 weeks? He claims that he’s just super nervous and is worried I won’t like him in person. But it’s kinda weird because this dude goes helllaaa hard in flirting and claiming to want to be together and even mentions in my kids. So I told him that if he does this again, I’m done. So he made plans for today. Around the time he got off work, I was telling him that if he just didn’t want to that I just would want him to tell me. He left me open and posted snapchats of him out. So I texted him and then called him and was like “why are you being weird”. But he says he just hasn’t had his phone on him and he’s out with his brothers bc one of them is moving out of state and when I told him I was about to just be done he was like “I didn’t say no to being together tonight, just not now”. Which, okay, fine. But that’s not something that comes up last minute. And even if it did, why not just say “hey I’m doing this and then we can figure stuff out”