Should I wait for him? Or what should I do??

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So my boy bestfriend just got out of a 3 year relationship. He told me how he felt about me, and he told me that he wanted for something to happen between us in the future because he was “in love” with me. He ended that relationship about 4 months ago and he started going to therapy this week because he said he wants to close that cycle. He told me i am “the right person wrong time”. And he says that the only reason why he has not asked me out is because he is not over the breakup and he does not want to put me through that. We do go out a lot though and he seeks me a lot. Should I keep waiting? Or should i just stop talking to him in hopes that that will make him realize what he has with me?? Thats what some friends tell me but i don’t know. What do you guys think? 
Ps: we have been bestfriends for 2 years now

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You haven’t really said how you feel about him… do you think he’s like, the person you will marry? If so, giving him a couple more months to process his break up isn’t a big deal in my eyes. But if you just love him like a best friend, or are possibly interested in other guys/options that you are saying no to because of him, then no, don’t wait around. Doesn’t mean you won’t/can’t be together in the future if that’s what you both want.

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If he is being genuine I'd wait for him to be ready.

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So, a 3 year relationship takes a while to get over specially if you were in love with that person.
He used you as a rebound to try to get over that girl. So, with that in count he may not actually feel anything for you personally. Can you wait for you even though in the end he doesn’t like you like that?
I say keep your options open.

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I admire his honestly with telling you he isn’t over his ex and doesn’t want to put you through that. 
But don’t ever wait for anyone 
You can’t talk to someone about a relationship who has just gotten out of a long term relationship and is still hung on their ex. They don’t know what they want and through the pain of their ex they will grab anything that masks that pain and that distracts them from the pain they’re feeling. You can’t ever trust what someone says when they’re in that situation. Even if they feel like they’re being genuine.

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Don’t put your life on hold for anyone. Don’t wait for anyone. Live your life and make yourself happy. If it’s meant to be, it will. Don’t sacrifice your life, time, happiness, hopes, dreams, and anything else for a “what if”. If he wanted to be with you he would, imo. Right person, wrong time seems like something people say to let a person down easy.

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You need to have more patience
Just be there for him and help him through what he is dealing with but give him space at the same time
In the mean time why don’t you figure out what you want and if you actually feel the same