I have Vasa previa and have been on pelvic rest since 18 weeks. Thuis means no orgasm, penetration, nada. My husband and I have tried to fool around some, mainly for his benefit, but I get so frustrated not being able to orgasm too. It's very hard to stop but I know I have to. Since the last time this happened, we haven't done anything and we have been getting kind of snippy at one another. I'm not entirely sure what to do. I don't like giving oral bc it literally makes the sides of my mouth Crack and hand jobs cause my wrist to get all tingly and go numb. Anyone have any other ideas? I would love to be able to have sex, but just cant. Thanks for helping.