staying at home..

so i just had my son a week ago. & i also have a 17 month old daughter.. i’ve been staying at home and my boyfriend been working 2 jobs. but i just don’t understand why men think staying at home watching the babies all day is so easy. so today i tested him, we live 5 mins from walmart so i went to walmart to get some diaper rash cream & bananas and left our son & daughter with him & he was also putting up the crib. i wasn’t even gone 20 mins & when i came back home i said “damn you haven’t even added another piece or anything since i’ve been gone” he said “i’ve had to stop and feed him & change them & fix her something to eat too”, i said “oh i thought you said staying at home with them was “easy” lol” .. i think he understands now, it aint always easy