Bf thinks I’m sexually broken

bf is under the assumption that I am pretty much the only woman in the world who needs some form of stimulation/foreplay to be turned on. I’m wondering if I truly am the odd one out? So far every article I’ve read says that the vast majority of women require a connection, stimulation, or both to get in the mood, but I want to hear personal opinions? Are you able to make yourself lubricated and h*rny within seconds of the mention of sex for your partner? Or do you require some sort of stimulation; aka foreplay- such as kissing, oral, touching, massaging, dirty talk, etc. to get in the mood? He thinks I’m broken because I can’t turn myself on at the push of a button- he’s under the impression majority of women can and will get horny/wet within seconds of mention of sex- I mean I’m not a fcking car , I can’t turn on the very second a key goes in my hole. How can I get him to understand this? How can I get him to engage in foreplay rather than viewing me as a hole to cum in with an on/off switch?