Announcing to friends

Jan

Because of my last miscarriage, I’m extremely anxious at my current pregnancy.

I’m 14weeks now and finally told my parents. My husband is eager to tell his friends now, but I’m so reluctant. Last time I didn’t get any emotional support from these friends at my miscarriage. I don’t understand why my husband feels the need to announce under peer pressure.

Personally I would like to wait until delivery haha or at least after anatomy scan comes back as ok at 20w.

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Na

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After being told I couldn’t have kids I announced my daughter at about 18-20 weeks pregnant. 5 years later when pregnant with my son it was a complete shock, I announced at 30 weeks

Ja

Jan • Aug 15, 2022
Your family or SO is supportive of that?

Sa

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I completely get it. I had 2 miscarriages and it really shows who your real friends are. This third time I only told people who supported me! Everyone else just tell when you feel you're comfortable. I'm 19 weeks now and I announced on my social media's to all other friends at 16 weeks. Do what feels right to you 🥰

Ja

Jan • Aug 14, 2022
🌹thanks! I just want to filter as much noise as possible…I’m quite afraid when people ask me to “chill out” more lol