Workoholic husband

My husband works in a start up and works ridiculous hours!

We have two kids, one is 2 years and the other turning one soon. This year he worked for 4 months 7 days a week more than 8 hours a day. We do not have any family support nearby. If I had known how much he is going to work I would have not wanted a second child.

I am completely exhausted! My neighbours don’t work much and keep on commenting „poor thing“ which makes me feel even worse.

I struggle to cope with household as the baby is very sensitive. I often don’t know what to do. We have a small flat and I can’t stay in.

I hate weekends as ppl always ask me what my husband is doing. Well, he is working! They know it! Stop asking. I do get very sensitive.

Last year I already gave him an ultimatum to leave as he said just before I gave birth „I hope baby takes a bit longer, I have to work“.

He is a loving and caring father when he spends time with them. The kids miss him and he can easily get them to sleep in the evenings as he is very calming.

But I hate it!