What should I do? Am I wrong

Question

My partner has two other kids and I love them so much like my own but we recently lost a baby and I feel like different , I don't even want to be around his kids anymore but I feel bad I don't want to feel like this I feel so wrong and like a bad person 😔

Answer

I went through this both times I miscarried.  I tried explaining that it just hurt too much to be around little kids but mostly little kid that were a part of him. It didn't seem fair that another lady could have children that looked and acted like my husband but I couldn't do the same. It was really hard but what made it really bad was that I at first didn't know why I felt the way I did so I came off cold to everyone. I finally realized that it wasn't OK to hurt my pre-made family so I prayed really hard and asked for the strength to be around them. Don't get me wrong I still get angry that we don't have a cold that looks like us but that doesn't mean it'll always be that way and that's what keeps me going most days. I hope knowing you aren't alone in this feeling makes you not feel like a bad person. But you have to take care of yourself first or your no good to anyone. I wish you love and peace in your heart and mind because it's truly hard. I know.

Answer

think of the kids. I'm very sorry for your loss. But if you can, be strong and think of how much they LOVE to have you around and how important you are to them.

What should I do? Am I wrong

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