I wish I was more jealous/territorial

I love my bf and while I do get annoyed when I hear about if a girl hit on him or if he even mentions a girl from his past, I don’t think I’d ever get territorial or step up if a girl tried to talk to him while I’m there. Mainly just because I want to see how he’d handle it and because it’s his choice if he wants to accept her flirting or not. I know he wouldn’t. But idk

I wish I was more territorial. Any advice on how to be???

I know he loves it if I do get territorial and he’s very much like that. Sometimes I’ll try to be and he lovessss it but I don’t think I am. But I really wish I was. I don’t want to share him but I can’t force him to not do anything, if that makes sense. I’m just not typically a jealous person

Like he can’t flirt with other girls or anything bc that’s a boundary we have but I’m never going to go crazy on a girl for talking to him as long as he doesn’t do anything. And if he does do something then I’d rather know that so I can break up with him