Having an old friend sleep over

I’ve been friends and have seen her once in the last 10 years and we’ve recently started talking a lot like old times. I’m married with 2 kids and she’s engaged and just have ALOT of drama around her with her fiancé and her family issues. She’s coming to where I live in New York to get some paperwork done and was wondering where she should stay/which areas are good. I feel like she’s hinting or upset that I haven’t offered her to stay with us. Honestly my home is a safe haven for me and my husband and I just don’t feel comfortable with her staying even if it’s just 3 nights. Now she’s a little distant and I know it’s because I haven’t offered her to stay with us. Is that wrong of me? Her life is a little chaotic and I haven’t really seen her in YEARS, I just feel now there’s an elephant in the room bc I haven’t offered her to stay with us. Am I in the wrong here? Now she’s distant in her txts and calls