Trouble with depending on God and my SO

So my long term boyfriend and I have been through a lot. We are planning on buying a house soon and then thinking about getting married. He has really helped me the past few months, especially when I had issues at my work and my friends and family leaving, I was in a dark place and he was there for me. The subject came up from a tv show we are watching, and he said we should never “need” each-other. That you should always be able to be fine without your SO/ spouse, but if it’s right then you wouldn’t want too. I’m not sure why but this really hurt me, basically because I have always wanted to be needed in a relationship, and also because I really felt like I needed him in some particular situations that I mentioned and he was there for me, and that made me feel guilty because I needed him then, somehow it just feels wrong? I just feel kinda awful knowing he doesn’t need me and I’m not contributing and he will be fine if I’m not there. I’m thinking now maybe this is a problem within myself? Maybe this just means I need to focus more on needing and depending on God and no one else. This feels right and I’m sure I do need to have more faith that God will be there even when no one else is. It just feels wrong that in a successful relationship your not suppose to need or depend on one another at all? I thought it was suppose to be like a beneficial partnership? I’m just struggling with what a healthy and Godly relationship pi’s suppose to look like. Any insight is appreciated if you have read this far❤️❤️