My girlfriend seems to be having a lot of regrets as far as being pregnant goes. She has never been so distant in our relationship and I’m not too sure how to handle it. We barely get to see each other as is and there is an insane amount of stress outside of the pregnancy. Housing stability is a big thing right now. We don’t currently live together and I rarely get to see her. I know she’s feeling the stress of everything, but I just wish we could be going through it all together. Despite everything going on, one of my biggest stressors is the fact that it feels like she is pushing me away and no amount of pleading is seeming to get through. She just says that I’m only focused on my emotions, that I only care about me, and that there’s no room for anyone else’s emotions. Well I just wish we could talk about and discuss things more freely without it feeling like I’m pulling teeth or being attacked. I know she’s a hormonal mess right now, but things just feel so wrong at the moment. She’s at 11 weeks btw. I feel like I’m grieving the loss of our relationship without any official split. Nothing I’m saying seems to get the point across, and even seems to get taken the wrong way. I have no idea what to do, but I feel like I’m losing my mind and I fear that I’m losing the love of my life and the chance to raise a child with someone I’m head over heels for. Btw, we’ve been together since February of 2021 and this is our second pregnancy. We lost the first one last year. We haven’t been trying and she blames me for even being in this situation that further complicates things. She seems like she downright resents and despises me right now though. Still loves me apparently, but despises me from what I feel coming from her.