Advice NEEDED COMMENTS PLEASE

I told my boyfriend I have an issue with you not including me in OUR plans, we start talking about them and you never let me know if you’re busy or not or if said plans are said still on

He immediately reverted to sorry I didn’t text I fell asleep

I said no problem can we talk about not letting me know when you’re busy or not when we make plans to see each other

He said listen I want this but sorry I can’t respond to you all the time I am not finger banging my phone 24/7

I said I get that but that’s not the issue, the issue is you don’t say hey I can’t Saturday I’m busy or hey Saturday noon?

He said No I don't want this to end but I also don't want hundreds of m messages and all this everytime I don't answer you I don't always stayed glued to my phone

I said idk what you’re talking about? You’re busy I never text you until

You text me first 🤷‍♀️ huh??? My issue isn’t texting many times or the fact you’re living your life and can’t be on your phone all day 🤔 my issue is …..nevermind

He said what you doing

I’m like heading out

Why was he avoiding the issue??

I do not message him hundreds of times I always wait til he messages me first what he was saying doesn’t make sense