Opinions

I'm at a complete stand still on what to do, my marriage I feel is definitely in a tight spot. Everything just seems off from we barely talk , literally no sex and last 3 times we attempted he went completely soft during and I was so turned off, I was over it.(I mean it's the 3rd time that happens. And he keeps saying oh it's the meds they got me on and I told him ion even understand why you would agree to be on all these meds (he's trying to get to 100% for his VA disability so whatever they give him he takes it all not knowing the side effects. ) I literally just feel so alone. We sit in separate rooms when we're home and do the occasional you good? I'm good? Go back to our spaces. I always have to suggest even if we do go somewhere or do something. Like why do I gotta tell you how to treat me..ion get it...I'm so tired and drained. He works In a warehouse and I have my own summer camp/After-school program. Any suggestions??