Disconnect

So I'm 7 weeks pregnant and this is my second. I feel disconnected like I'm not happy or anything I feel nothing for the baby. It's to the point where I'm considering adoption because I feel so disconnected. I tell myself it's normal but with my daughter I was like this for a little while but when I saw her heartbeat I was excited. When I saw the heartbeat this time I still felt nothing my husband and daughter are happy and I'm just here like whatever. I've attempted to communicate but people I've talked too make it seem as though my feelings aren't valid or not normal saying I need to pray and take my medicine which just hurts me because it's like what I said isn't real I just need meds. Financially I'm taking a tough hit I lost my job a week before I became pregnant I'm looking for jobs but it's taking a bit longer then usual. It plays a big role but I honestly want to want the baby like everyone else does and no matter what I try I can't feel that way so I'm reaching out for help, encouragement or just a listening ear.

UPDATE: I feel better now I'm 11 weeks and 6 days I'm having a boy I'm happy and pretty excited. Thank you to everyone who gave encouraging words it helped a lot!