I'm a midwife student, I'm 23 and I started studying in 2017. My bachelor is 4 years where I live. So I should've graduated in 2021. I feel like a failure because I should've been done by now and already working but I keep self sabotaging. I have all the tools to succeed and yet I don't do what I need to do. I have a boyfriend as well and I'm dreading having to tell him that I failed. He's older and already working. I know my family and my boyfriend will be disappointed in me. I'm very disappointed in myself for not just doing the work, this year was hard, I lost my motivation and didn't find the strength to go to my classes, I still succeeded almost all my classes but because I failed my internships, I will add another year to my bachelor...

In how long did you guys do your bachelor and how long was it supposed to be? Please tell me I'm not alone.