Help please w dying up milk

Alexia

I’m 3 weeks pp, my milk still hasn’t dried up fully, I’m not breastfeeding I don’t want to so please don’t say I should I already made up my mind. But my milk hasn’t fully dried up yet I’m not sure what to do I’ve tried ice, cabbage leaves, no hot water. I don’t leak a lot but i would like to be able to sleep w/o needing breast pads, an go all day w/o needing them too. What else can I do