Thinking about getting a surrogate to carry my baby

So my husband and I decided to finally have a baby but I have very firmly decided that I don’t want to carry the baby, for personal reasons I can’t be bothered to type all out here but that’s the decision. I know that it is possible to have a child by having my husbands sperm fertilise my egg and placing this fertilised egg into another woman to carry our child. However I am aware it is not the usual pregnancy route and of course I am talking to the doctors and professionals plenty regarding this topic but I just wanted to hear from anyone who has had it done what their experience with it was like and if it affected their bond with their newborn as obviously they didn’t carry it so perhaps that strong bond isn’t there? I don’t know.

Also my husband said he would prefer if I were to carry the baby but at the end of the day it’s my decision as it’s my body that would be subjected to the most trauma so we both did agree to this but did anyone else’s husband feel the same too?