Hello, so I’m 23 years old and I got out of a almost 4 year long relationship. My ex only had sex with one other female and we got together when he was 18 and I was 19. In the 4 years of us being together he’s only given me an orgasm maybe 3 times. Needless to say in the beginning of our relationship he was very selfish in bed. I also didn’t know what I deserved because the ex before him didn’t even try to give me an orgasm. There were many nights my ex would try to focus on me and try to give me an orgasm but even with me communicating with him what I like and what I don’t like it was still very unsuccessful. Flash forward to a couple months of me being single I met this man who’s nearly 9 years old than me and needless to say-he’s way more experienced than my ex. He said he’s used to giving a woman an orgasm every time he has sex with them-when he told me that it made me so nervous because HELLO, I had no idea that was even a thing! We’ve been together for about 5 months now and he’s given me more orgasm’s than my ex did but he doesn’t give me an orgasm every time we have sex, he gives me one like once every 5 or so sessions (just an estimate, I don’t keep track) and whenever he doesn’t he’s pretty sweet about it but I feel so bad. I’ve been able to communicate the things I like that he does v.s the things I don’t like. He’s amazing down there and to me it feels really good but sometimes I get too sensitive and then it’s like I can’t have an orgasm if I’m too sensitive down there. Idk. I literally feel like there’s something wrong with me. I really do try to get out of my head and just relax, especially because he says he genuinely enjoys going down there but I’m still left feeling like something’s wrong with me because I’m not able to orgasm every time he tries. Any advice?