I had my son on the 21st...so technically he will be 4 days old Christmas, my sister in law well basically my side of the family is wanting me to celebrate with them plus the newest edition. They only live about 25 mins away from my location and it will only be immediate family there. But his family is saying don't go baby is too young but thing of it is his family only consist of his mother and grandmother. And not much is done with them during the holidays . I just don't know what to do I wanna see my family but really don't wanna hear from his family well I would never hear oh I wouldn't do that or I waited till he was a couple months . what should I do really needs help