I’ve been with the same person since I was 16 yrs old. I turn 23 here in about a week.. I’m currently pregnant with our second child.. I’m a stay at home mom and wondering if anyone has any ideas on how to make some extra income on the side (so he doesn’t know). I need to be able to get a storage unit and start moving my stuff.

I have a plan to move my stuff in the middle of the night and once I have everything I want out, my child and I are leaving. I have tons of support from friends, my family thinks I’ll just come back because I have in the past but I’ve realized I can’t raise children in this environment and that none of us deserve this.

He won’t get the help he needs or get on the medication he needs to. I’m afraid he’s going to repeat the abusive life he had with our children.

My goal is to be out before I have the second child.

I have a car ( he controls that + gas + money ).

I just need to find ways to make some cash and keep it hidden. Working isn’t an option as I don’t have a babysitter nor can I afford one.

TIA for any advice and support. I’m just struggling mentally.