"Is my husband/boyfriend gay?"

I've seen this too many times. Why can WOMEN watch lesbian porn but no one thinks they're lesbian yet it's so bad for men to watch gay porn? If a man watches gay porn that doesn't make him gay. What makes him bisexual/gay is if he loves having SEX with other MEN. Some straight men love having their prostate stimulated. Does that make them gay? No, it doesn't.