Those who have miscarried or suffered loss...

I would LOVE to know your thoughts and opinions on this topic specifically.

If you have had a loss, in your opinion what is the best way for a family member to reveal they are pregnant to you? I have a friend who suffered a traumatic loss in December of last year and she's been mentally reeling ever since. I just found out I am pregnant and normally she would be one of the first to know, but given her predicament I am terrified of hurting her with my news.

I want to be gentle and respectful of her and her emotions during this time, can you help teach me how?