Are you ok with p*rn?

Please be nice… I’m genuinely asking a question and trying to understand. I’ve never watched porn and it’s a boundary my husband and I have that neither of us watch it. He has in the past and it really hurt my feelings and made me feel so insecure. How do you women that are ok with your partners watching porn deal with jealousy and insecurity? Doesn’t it make you feel like he thinks about those women during sex? Again please be nice, no hate!