my bf and i were talking about his cousins wedding that was in 2015. and he casually slipped out that his father ended up putting 100k towards their wedding. i went into full “what the fuck” mode. i come from a very very struggling family. we don’t even make 100k in a year, probably even two years. i was so blasted by that comment that i kinda stayed silent. i know we grew up in different classes but i never realized the huge gap until right now. he then said “imagine when we get married” — i am shook, i am stunned.