He is trying to black mail me

Anonymous • Mon, Sep 12

So I had been talking to this guy I met off tinder for a week

After 6 days I told him

I don’t think we are a match, I’d like to take this time to focus on myself. I’m just not really feeling the dating scene or a connection and definitely not ready due to having a break up 2.5 months ago. I’m sorry I just need a break from all this. I hope you understand and take care.

I unfriended and went to sleep

Woke up 2 hours later to my phone going off

He texted me

Him: If that’s the case I have unsolicited pics I can spread around….

Him: pick up the phone

Him: if you don’t pick up the phone I’m gonna tell your ex you cheated on him with me and spread these pics around

Him: PICK UP THE PHONE!!!!!

Thing is I never sent him pics per a voicemail he said he had pics that people won’t know whether it’s me or not

So I responded and said

You’re not being respectful of my decision. I told you I am really not feeling the dating scene at the moment or a connection. I am allowed to cut off such contact if it’s not right for me.

How would you handle this???

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Posted at Mon, Sep 12 2022

take screenshots and let him know u have screenshots and if he doesn’t leave u alone you’ll have no choice but to contact the police

Posted at Mon, Sep 12 2022

If it’s not actually you .. just let him talk .. you could very well do the same about him .. spreading pics .. take some screen shots of what he said .. if he spreads pics to say it’s you, just post the screenshots so ppl know it’s actually just him being a douche bag. I personally don’t believe in dating apps and this is a big reason. If you’re single, the right person will come along. Humans shouldn’t try so hard to ‘find someone’ focus on healing from your break up and let the right person come to you.

Posted at Mon, Sep 12 2022

I have had someone do this to me. It got so bad I had to completely change my number and block him from anything he knew my social media to. All his threats didn’t go through because no one ever said anything and the treats he was making if he went through it then I knew I would hear about it. But honestly if you feel you need to go to the police! Whatever is going to make you comfortable

Chelsie • Mon, Sep 12 2022

But by all means do not talk to him!!

Posted at Mon, Sep 12 2022

Tell him if he doesn’t stop you’ll press charges for harassment

Posted at Tue, Sep 13 2022

Just tell him to f off otherwise you’ll be sharing his threats with the police.

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