My husband believes his role is to provide and my main role is to care for the kids and house.. so all the responsibility of the house and kids fully fall on me unless I ask him to do things he does do stuff around the house but only when asked and he recently said to me that he thinks I hate being a mother because i always complain about how i need a break.. i am so exhausted i daydream about running away.. he does not get it he doesn't get the exhausting job of being a stay at home mother.. and he thinks he has it worst because he works goes to school online and helps in the house when he can.. so the full load of everything in the house meals and kids it's all mostly on me his comment cut my heart right in half.. i resent him so bad for what he said .. i am considering separating..