Would this bother yall?

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Literally every time me and my bf are on the phone he will hang up on me when any of his friends call. I wish he would just put them on hold and let me and him finish our call I feel he always puts them first. Like he doesn’t like being otp. Prob overthinking idk. What do y’all think?
Let me add, yes I’ve told him it bothers me plenty of times and he still does it.

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I’d be very unhappy. It’s up to you if this is a deal breaker or not. Makes me wonder if there’s other things that you guys have talked about that he has disregarded

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Have you told him this?

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That's incredibly rude of him. If he doesn't stop then I'd break up over this. If he wants a relationship with you then he needs to act like it.

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My husband does this to me and it pisses me off!!! I could be dead serious talking about something highly important, and next thing I know he's all so in so is calling ill call you back! 
ILl tell him just let me finish what I'm saying then you can call them back. And next thing I know he hangs up to talk to that person!!!! WTF!!!! 
I am "supposed" to be your wife... but yet the call from your friends, Co workers, or occasionally your EX fiance is more important then what your WIFE is trying to tell you????
But lord help me if I'm on the phone with him and someone calls me and I take the call. Or if I'm already on the phone and don't answer his call...

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I'd make sure he knows I'm as important as his friends, relationships comes on two people not a bunch.  If I had someone like that in the past I'd feel like they don't really care, but maybe it's a bad habit too.

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My boyfriend does this sometimes & it bothers me. I know he doesn’t do it to intentionally upset me. He will just say “so and so is calling, I’ll call you back” .. like grrrr.. just call THEM back lol. But it’s not the end of the world to me either. I don’t feel like he’s prioritizing them over me, I don’t think he would do it if our phone call was important

Would this bother yall?

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