Edging....

Me

Melissa

Has anyone here ever done edging on their male SO? I wanna start edging with my husband and I am looking for any and all pointers! I am also wondering if it truly does lead to a more intense orgasm for them? We have been looking for ways to spice up our sex lives. We are currently using condoms as my husband just had his vasectomy 5 weeks ago and we won't know for sure if it was effective until mid Nov. He is completely ok using the condoms even though I know he doesn't get nearly as much satisfaction out of sex with them. I would like to be able to do this occasionally for him by hand or oral so he can go without the condom. And of course if we both enjoy it we will continue even after he gets the all clear!

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Ch

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It makes it way better teasing and mine loves it !! I do it to him most of the time cause I like to torture him

Ju

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A lot of it is communication honestly. Finding out what makes him orgasm and how quickly he reaches climax are key. Either by him telling you he’s close or you knowing his body language. My husband loves when I edge him as foreplay. And it’s a different way to switch up the “power” complex

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Melissa • Oct 3, 2022
I'm working on learning his body language a little better bc him telling me he was close wasn't really working bc he couldn't enjoy it as much. He is giving me some feedback afterwards and the 1x he said I could have gotten him closer a few times before backing off. He is definitely enjoying edging and so am I. Once I get better at reading his body language so I can push him more I think it will be even better!

Ke

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Go down on him and when you think he’s close, slow down and tease him a lil

To

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You need to focus fully on his body when you’re doing it, you need to know what the signs are that he’s getting close so you can slow down or stop. It’s literally all about the details, every sound, every muscle tensing, the slightest increase in girth when he’s right there. I hyper focus so it comes naturally but it’s not always easy depending on the guy. Some guys are so quiet and still it’s really hard to tell.

Me

Melissa • Jan 26, 2023
I've gotten really good at reading his body language and he enjoys when I edge him occasionally.

To

To • Jan 26, 2023
Once y’all get it down it’s really amazing how the excitement builds!

Ke

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Do u mean rimming ?

Ke

Kerry • Oct 18, 2022
Oh we call that peaking where I'm from 😂

Me

Melissa • Oct 17, 2022
Nope edging. We have started doing it occasionally. It's where you get yourself or someone else extremely close to an ogasm and then stop. You repeat this multiple times until finally allowing the prgasm to happen and most ppl experience a more intense orgasm. My husband is definitely enjoying this but we keep it for like "a treat"

Ca

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You need to ask your partner. Sex, pleasure, orgasm is different from one to the next. Ask your partner what he likes. Not everyone enjoys edging.

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Melissa • Sep 15, 2022
We have already discussed trying edging and he is very interested in trying it. I would never try something like this without first talking to him. I understand everyone is different just looking for things to try as we figure out what he likes.