Do you think all marriages go through this or is it doomed!?

My husbands done a lot of let’s say disrespectful things to me. I always end up forgiving him, he says he won’t do them again but always does. I started to detach my feelings. This has been going on for over a year now that I’ve felt this way. About a year ago he told me to divorce him when he was drunk and I even read texts to his friends joking that I’d never leave. He told me it was just guy talk. Fast forward to now, the last big thing he did just completely snapped something in my brain. I think my feelings for him are disappearing. Almost everything he does bothers me. Loud, sloppy, reckless, selfish, untrusting, rude.. i don’t want to be touched by him or hardly even talk to him. I just had a baby and spend almost all my time with her. I even sleep in her room. We haven’t been on a date in so long and intimacy is far off the table. He’s been “trying” to help more with housework and kids but I feel like everything he’s done to me ruined us. Do you think the marriage is shot or postpartum has got the best of me? I’m not even sad at all. Just really been questioning everything