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My BessFrann invited me and my husband (her 2nd cousin ) to a pool party for his birthday . She tagged along her other friend . Which just so happen to be a dancer . He proceeds to add her on Facebook . Before anybody who met her could . My husband did . Am I over reacting or do I need to be like “dang “ let me get to know her 1st before you go to looking up her social media and ish !!! Y’all like wtf . Mind you when we met her she was in her bikin, thing doing her little dance she do at the club ! Would that make you feel some type of way or is it just me ? It’s just the fact nobody knows her at all and for him to be the one to add her before I even do is just weird to me .