Is it normal to never orgasm during sex?

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To start off, every time me and my husband has sex I feel like its more about his wants/pleasures than it is mine. He always finishes before me and after he finishes, he pulls out and says, “I’m done.” 
He always does this! I never finish… never.. so when he’s “done,” I’m not. 
I have never orgasm during sex. I always dread having sex (I do it anyways for him and I never told him this) because I never get what I need out of it.

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I voted yes before reading which should absolutely be no...It's normal due to life being life but in this case how he treats sex with you is what isn't normal.

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It’s not normal tell him

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He’s being really selfish, he should be WANTING to help you finish. If he isn’t then he’s only concerned about himself finishing and that’s wrong

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Have a conversation with him. Letting him know what's important to you and with trying something new. Usually, men will use foreplay with their lady and other things before 'inserting themselves', so that they make sure the women feels more pleasure. & it makes everything more enjoyable for both.

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Unfortunately it is normal for many women but it doesn’t have to be. He’s selfish. You need to have a talk or you’re headed for divorce

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It is very normal for women not to orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. Many women, somewhere around 85%, need other stimulation, usually clitoral, to orgasm. You need to tell him what you want and what feels good to you!

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I mean, he sounds inconsiderate but have you expressed that you need more attention? 
Do y’all do foreplay? 
Can you get off from penetration alone? Most women need clitoral stimulation and often vibration. 
Have you tried bringing toys to bed? 
I can’t get off from penetration alone. I can’t get off without vibration either. I bring a bullet to stimulate my clit while getting penetrated. It’s great!

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I voted before reading… you should explain this to him. Although i don’t get to finish before my hubs every time more than likely he makes sure my needs are met!

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Same here, except I'm not married lol but I take way too long to reach climax so I just don't even bother with worrying about my pleasure when I do have sex, it's just about getting him to cum cuz I do really like how it feels when he cums inside me, but it like gets me GOING! 😣😝🤦‍♀️😂 So then I have to just go rub it out by myself afterwards 🙄

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No…although I know for women it’s harder so introducing toys or even extensive foreplay may be important but I’d be damned my man is always making sure I cum first & if he absolutely cannot hold it he expresses he can’t and asks if it’s okay or not…

Is it normal to never orgasm during sex?

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