My husband and I have only been married for a little over a year, been dating for 5. He use to be loving, a kiss every now and again, be somewhat romantic in bed, etc. But every since we got married he has it in his head that that's when you don't have to try anymore. We have NO romance, NO random kisses or I love yous and could careless helping me out with anything around the house. I'm just not sure what do, makes me feel like there is something wrong with me or I'm ugly to him now.. Advice?