Shave Bumps

Hey guys. I just have a question on how to not get bad shave bumps on your bikini area. I have tried everything. And I mean everything. Warm water before shaving to soften the hairs, exfoliate, cold cloth after shaving. Aloe. After shave gel. Lotion. Waxing. New and clean razor blade. Maybe I’m missing something here but it definitely makes me insecure. If any of you have any ideas or anything that has at least helped minimize them PLEASE help a girl out😅