Should I ??!??!!?! Help!!!?!!!!!!

Question

Hey everyone so I understand not everyone is a Christian and that’s fine but I am and some things in the Bible that were prophesied are happing and have happed like the Euphrates river drying up etc it says it will dry up and low and behold it is so basically I’m 19 soon my husband is 21 we were gonna wait a few years before trying for a baby but I have already lost one to a miscarriage (I was raped) even tho it wasn’t from a good circumstance I loved the baby with all my heart and before the end of times come I want to experience being a mother etc and my husband agrees but we are both scared ofc I don’t know if the end of the world is gonna happen soon or not but if it is I don’t wanna watch it happen and wish I had taken the chance I understand I’m young and I’m not sure I wanna give up drinking and having fun with my friends but then again I feel ready idk I’m very confused and scared and also excited does anyone have any thoughts!!!!

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Matthew 24:36 "But of that day and hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels of heaven, but my Father only."
I personally feel like none of us are ever supposed to predict, guess or estimate when that time will come. Also I personally feel like for that time to come SO MUCH MORE will have to take place. Yes, things have happened little by little over long periods of time and will continue to. I do not feel in my heart it will all come crashing down and once and I believe a God doesn't want us to live our life in fear rushing through everything thinking the end is coming soon constantly and we aren't supposed to. Jesus told us this in this passage. I think this is why we have free will. We aren't supposed to constantly be terrified the end is near so we do what we think we have to do in a short amount of time. We live and live well. Live a good life without a rush or fear. You're 18 still. Very young. There is no need to rush to bring a child into the world because you think the end of times are coming. I don't believe a God would want you to do that.
As a Christian though, drinking for fun is always something you could give up. The Bible does speak of not indulging in drink to become intoxicated. It's also healthier for you. You can have fun with your friends without drinking. 
Don't rush to become a parent if you're not ready. Married or not you're still a teenager and need to do some adulting first. I was married at 19 and do not regret waiting until I had grown and matured to have a baby. I also didn't do it out of fear and didn't rush into it. 
It really doesn't sound like you're ready so pray about it.

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Adding on to the other ladies’ comments, nobody knows the exact time of Jesus’ return but we’re looking for the signs, We can read about signs and the course of events e.g. in Matthew 24, Luke 21, Mark 13, the book of Revelation, the book of Daniel, both Thessalonian letters. 
In end times terms, Israel inhabiting some of its original territory and founding its own nation in 1948 was a big milestone. 
Other milestones yet to come include the building of the Third Temple in Jerusalem, the re-institution of daily animal sacrifices at the Temple, the vast increase of wickedness like in the days of Noah and Lot, the rise of a conglomerate kingdom that will give its powers to the Antichrist, the Antichrist’s false peace treaty with Israel, the public and prominent appearance of the two witnesses that God will send etc etc. 
So there are many more milestones to come before Jesus returns, but the world is clearly heading into that direction. That doesn’t mean that we should start following the world’s lustful ways. Our lives can be over at any time, so we need to make sure that we abide in Jesus always as a branch abides in the vine. So we press on in Jesus all the more as the times are heading more towards the end of times.

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Being a nervous wreck about having a child is perfectly normal.  It’s such a blessing to watch him or her grow up and grow in their faith when it does happen.  Only you know when the time is right for you as a couple.  Honestly, I don’t spend a lot of time thinking about the end of time.  When Jesus calls me home, there’s not a whole lot I can do to stop it except to accept His will.

Should I ??!??!!?! Help!!!?!!!!!!

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