i’m pregnant and the father doesn’t want the baby

i’m pregnant by surprise and i told the father i wanted to keep it and he is now telling me i’m ruining his life and how i’m trapping him. this was unplanned but i have support and know i can take care of a baby myself. i know howw hard it will be . he tells me i fucked up his life even thought i said he doesn’t need to be in their life. i’m hurt and he wants me to have an abortion. it’s not fair to get an abortion just because he’s not ready. am i wrong ??