How should I approch

Girls,

I need advice on what to do or how to over come these feelings. My husband of 5 years and I have talked about not watching porn unless it's together. I have made my feelings very known that I don't want to use porn individually as I don't like him looking at other females in that way unless it a mutual thing that we are doing together. Most of the time when I am in the mood he is not. But I am always in the mood, and for the last 2 days I have made it known I'm in the mood but was disregarded and we are having sex at night as of lately. So as you can imagine I'm pretty tired and not getting good sleep as it is. Normally he will let me know when he wants anything but as of lately he wants me get the idea he wants stuff. He will be all lovely dove touchy feely in bed and if I don't wake up he will typically try harder to get me to wake up. I guess he tried that tonight but I don't even remember him trying to start anything or even touch me at all. When he fixes him self he will typically wait till I'm not home or if I'm alseep. And we have talked about not doing anything unless we are doing it together. Well tonight he decided he needed to fix his issues and did it while I was asleep in the bedroom. I don't have a problem with masturbation, what I have a problem with is porn. He says if he can't use porn then I can't use a vibrator. He views porn as a stimulant to get off. And I feel like with him looking at porn it raises his standard of what I need to look like so he can do certain things with me, this is one of the reasons I don't like porn. But I have agreed to watch it together. After all this last night I got really upset and it started an argument. Should I get over it and move on?