What are some questions i could or should ask….

My boyfriend and I took a 3 day break from each other following a big misunderstanding

Obviously we are both upset we took a break so it wouldn’t snowball out of control we haven’t been speaking

I’m supposed to see him today

What kind of questions should I be asking him if any

Like

Do you want to work this out?

Is this something you see as fixable?

What do you want to happen here?

Idk how to do this it’s my first relationship in a long long long time and I’ve never had to do this before……

Advice would be so so helpful