One week postpartum
I just had my baby boy last Tuesday! I had a scheduled C-section, and boy is this recovery hard. I was instantly in pain as soon as I was being wheeled into the recovery room. I knew then it was going to be a y tough one. My partner could only get one day off from work which really sucked but luckily my parents were around to help take care of my other two. I felt like my SO was using me being in the hospital as an excuse to get out of work early. And the day he did spend with me he kept complaining about wanting to go home that it ducked not being able to leave. He was on his phone a lot, and was even NAPPING! Even my nurse was annoyed by it. I sent him home. I was not looking forward to coming home. Come to find out he drank our entire bottle of whiskey while I was in the hospital (3 days). So once he’d leave me he’d go drink. Well he’s been drinking everyday now. I’m supposed to be resting and am not. The house is a mess, dishes were piled, laundry is crazy. I made sure everything was taken care of before hand. In pain I cleaned all of downstairs and yes my body hates me for it. He’s cooked dinner ONCE! Since being back. But thankfully my mom had made dinner the first two nights. Tonight I made spaghetti for the kids while he went hunting. Oh and yes did I mention he’s been hunting every day since I’ve been out of hospital?! He complained about being hungry and how he works all day long and the last thing he wants to be doing is cleaning up after anyone….I’m A SAHM and did this on daily basis. Yet the One time I need his support and help when I NEVER ask is such a burden…I feel alone and disgusted. I’ve already expressed to him how much An inconvenience I feel to him and he didn’t say anything. Didn’t try to comfort me to make think otherwise . What do I do?!!??!! Honestly just needed to vent. Scream and let This all out.😭😭😭
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