Hello all, this is my first pregnancy (and first post)! My husband and I have been married for a year but we were not planning to have kids for another year or so. I'm 4w5d now, I found out on 12/22. I wish we were excited about this, but we have so much we want to do before a child and we are seriously considering not keeping it. We're 29 and 32, so definitely mature enough to handle it, but I just started a great job and we do not have a support system close enough to us to help as much as we would need to both work full time.