I don’t know what to do 😭

In a dilemma here. So, I wash my hair about twice a week. I blow dry and straighten it every time. My hair is getting quite long now and I’m thinking about getting it cut up to my collarbone, just to make it look healthier.. less disheveled I guess. The only thing I don’t like about shorter hair is the fact that it’s harder to tie up and you have limited hair styles. The pro’s would be healthiness, easier to wash/manage and it’ll make my head feel lighter. I wanted my hair to be long but I can really see the split ends and it’s slightly dry no matter how much I condition it. It sticks out a lot and I just need to do something about it. I’m in a rut 😭