I think I'm being bullied as an adult...
This is a hard one to explain but I feel like I'm in need for some advice. I've been seeing this guy, we aren't official but we are both friends with this other girl who lives near us both. I go on tiktok lives quite often and this girls friends are all claiming she's sleeping with him. She claims it isn't true and he says it isn't true. I don't trust her but I trust him and there are a lot of inconsistencies in what has been said from her friends. It seems to me like she's gone out of her way to make it look like she's sleeping with him and told them she's been sleeping with him but she's only said things that I had told her before I caught on to all of this. She hasn't said anything that I haven't in the past told her, that she would only know if she'd slept with him. Also, I don't mean this in a nasty way but she's really not his type at all, I've known him a lot longer than she's known him and he's really not the type to lie. He's always been straightforward with me too!
I want to put an end to all of what they've been saying but, the only way I can think of is to catch her in her lies.
This really feels like bullying to me because it all started when I let it slip we were seeing each other, because I mistakingly thought we were friends. I feel like she's maybe jealous so now she's making all of this up. If she is making it all up, because I did catch her saying she'd slept with him (she doesn't know that) and I have caught her in another lie before too! I have feelings for this man and I know he has feelings for me too, however we have both been hurt before so we are avoiding labels and taking it slow.... I don't want to stop whatever we are because of some nasty girl who really sounds jealous... so if anyone has any advice I would be really grateful!
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