So I’m currently 9 months pregnant & engaged. When I first meet him he was the sweeetest roses all the time. He would put time into our relationship. We would cook together, appreciate the things that I did/done vice versa. I always say thank you and I always tell him I appreciate him and that I love him. after a year or so he was still the sweetest person. I was able to communicate with him and tell him how I felt. He went to go be a truck driver for the first 6 months of my pregnancy came back and it’s like he’s a different person. He’s meaner, seems more annoyed with everyone, doesn’t want to be bothered

Now it seems like he doesn’t even bother try to listen to me. I tried telling him and communicating with him that I don’t feel like I’m in a relationship with him no more I feel like I have two kids now. I’m constantly picking up behind him, constantly telling him to please do this. He doesn’t put any effort into our relationship no more neither into himself. Like I have to watch him to see if he will even brush his teeth before work. I try to throw hints like “aren’t you gonna atleast comb your hair or wash your face before work “ he just blows it off. He use to keep up with himself very well.

I tried telling him I’m feeling alil unappreciated. I don’t feel loved anymore it just feels forced. He threw in my face that he works all the time. Which I understand but it was never a difference when he worked before. We would do things together. He would get excited about it now it seems like he doesn’t want me around sometimes. He also stated you’re gonna be starting nursing school soon so there’s gonna be some days we aren’t even gonna talk. Which nursing school is hard and very time consuming but I still would like to put effort into my relationship. He worked sat 7am-6pm and still manage to go out that night to be with his friends till 1am and had to work again Sunday at 7a. He was excited and he actually put in the effort for himself. But when I ask to spend sometime with me like just watching a movie he goes I don’t wanna watch a movie. We don’t argue or anything I’m pretty much really quite.

Everytime I try to tell him how I feel he shuts me down & honestly it just shuts me down not to even try. I tried telling him and bringing up the sweet acts he use to do for me and it’s an excuse. I literally wash his clothes, make his food, i buy him the things he needs, obviously having a kid with him, I support him, i motivate him i do all these things and sometimes I just want a simple thank you so much or I just will like to come home to some roses with a thank you card. Like something !! Since I’ve been pregnant my sex drive has went down drastically. I have no desire for it but I still do it with him but not often. But when I ask he says o know it makes you uncomfortable so it’s okay or we will try comfy positions. My 5 year old shows appreciation more than he does honestly. I just feel super alone