Okay, me and my bf have been together for 3 years. I wouldn't trade him for anything or anyone in this world! BUT.. He is terrible at foreplay, his hands are rough bc he lays marble all day so when he touches me, esp my sweet spot, it hurts like sand paper!! He has always been like this.. So it's no surprise. I just wish he'd slow down and appreciate my body more. He can walk in the room and randomly just want to fukk... And I'll be dry and not aroused at all.. Lol. We use lube of course, but there is NOTHING that compares to natural arousment and getting enough wet wet without the need for nasty lube.