Bf treats me like crap

I’m a full time student , mom and I work full time. I work 12 hour shifts 3/4 days out of the week and I have school 2days out of the week. Bf works whatever days I’m off but when’s he off he stays up all night playing video games. I get off at 7am and don’t get home til 9 bc of the commute and he would get mad if I sleep past 12. Because he wants to sleep til it’s time for him to go to work . Last night I had to leave work bc he left our daughter alone for “a minute” and she got into my antidepressant medicine and I came home took care of her and stuff we went to sleep & he was mad that I wanted to sleep in this morning . Talking about u only went to work for a couple of hours it’s not that big of a deal where u need to sleep all day. Once I’m up I can’t go back to sleep & he knows that. Our daughter woke up crying he pretended to be sleep just so I could wake up and take care of her and fix her breakfast & started an argument about me getting onto him for staying up all night til 6 this morning on a game . Then he says he spends more time with our daughter than me. Anytime I say that I’m tired he says “you’re a big girl you can handle this” . I’m literally tired of this shit and it’s only getting worse , he doesn’t even watch our daughter his grandmother does while he plays video games and smoke weed all day & goes to work for 8 hours and complain about every thing. And if I say I don’t want to hear it he calls me selfish and not caring about his feelings . I’ve tried to leave this relationship so many times I have treated him like shit for so long because he refuses to let me break up with him. I’ve put him out and he won’t leave , I’ve done so much to push him away and he still refuses to leave. I haven’t had sex with him in months. I won’t even let him touch me I tell him to leave he won’t and cries about it feeling like he’s just my roommate.