How do I do a video?

Julesssss

My partner sends me video all the time and I would love to send atleast one or two back, but i have never done it. Dont know the angles, lighting, sounds, etc. I also take long to O even with a vibrator, so do i cut the video to when i might O, or just not do a full video, I also dont want like a long vid. Would it also be hotter with a toy or just hands, I really want to, im just so nervous and scared it will suck!