Sex after birth

Please tell me your experience on sex after birth.

I'm almost 9 months postpartum.

I just weaned off the pump at 7.5 months.

I have some libido but not much.

It's really a 75/25 shot if it's going to be uncomfortable for me or not.

My partner does his part plenty to ensure it's not a foreplay thing.

I'm just horrified to think that this could be my new normal.

My ob said breastfeeding can cause this but wondering how long after I have been done will I find out if that's what was the cause???