Sex/Period

So I have started having problems with my period since coming off birth control. It hasn't self regulated and I skip like two-three months before having. My relationship has been nuts at moments and it's made me uncomfortable with having sex on my period for reasons pertaining to my relationship but also due to the heaviness of my periods now etc.

My boyfriend is now mad and says he doesn't want to get dressed and go drink or have a date night if we can't possibly have sex.

I conveyed to him that made me feel like I wasn't any good to him unless we could have sex and that I'd still like to do something with him but he said it's been awhile since we had sex (Oct 4th, due to my period and also arguments etc that's happened) and he wants to be close with me and to touch me but if that means no sex than he'd rather not.

I've explained how that makes me feel but he just says I'm ignoring how he feels and that we can't. Compromise if sex isn't on the table.

Please for the love of God any advice.

I look forward to getting outta the house. I work from home, do school full time from home, I'm a mom like...any advice?