My husbands single friend invited him to his Halloween party. They are good friends and don’t see each other much. My husband has been remodeling our kitchen and works 2 jobs.

He works hard so I think he deserves to have fun right? I don’t want to tell him I’m having these thoughts at all really, because it feels selfish but I’m unsure.

My issue is that if he goes, I can’t go too because I’m 9 months pregnant I really don’t want to go to a Halloween party for many reasons. One being I can hardly move. I don’t want to be around drinking people and I can’t participate! I’ve been to his parties before and basically everyone fills the air with weed as well, I’m very very pregnant so that’s all not a good mix. I’m also feeling like I’ll be lonely, and afraid pretty girls with be there as well because I’m very insecure.

I don’t want to control him and keep him from doing what he wants to do, that is my main concern. I just feel like I’ll be worrying the entire time he’s gone but I know I shouldn’t. Am I just being to emotional? Would you want your husband to stay with you on Halloween?